10 years and counting...

# peringatan: post ini mungkin mengandungi unsur-unsur yang "memualkan"... hehe

setelah mendapat izin "the other" tuan punya cerita... bolehla I bercerita kat sini... macam mana kami kenal + ter"fall in love"... kami start kenal back to 1999... we were in the same class during matrix years... I barely recognize him since he was quite "cold" with all the girls in the class eventhough he was the monitor... to my judgement "mamat nih either pendiam or memang sombong"... then from that year to the year 2000 there were so many things happened and finally we became close friend back then.... kejap jer rasa dah 10 tahun rupanya kami couple and I still remember vividly how he proposed that day... he used to call me and tell stories... no feeling involved but just a normal chatting between 2 friends... but, that day he told me that he might need my advise on certain issue... dia kata dia "tersuka" kat sorang budak pompuan nih, who used to be his schoolmate... he made up all the stories yang this girl rasanya suka orang lain so he asked me whether he should proceed to propose or just keep silence... I pun bagilah nasihat yang patut... konon macam pandai sangat.... hahaha... I kata try jer lah.... who knows... at least you be a man and tell her what you feel... kena reject ke hapa tu issue lain... hahhaha.... at last dia kata dia ready and I asked him to call me back and tell the story whether "that girl"  reject ke hapa.... after a while he called me back and just keep silence... I yang rasa kesian yang maybe "that girl" dah reject dia... try to calm him down... after a moment of silence at last he spoke up... "budak pompuan tuh hang la".... swear I never had a hint pun that he might likes me... neither do I... so, being not mature and childish + shocked... I just hang up and tak jawab call dia for a week... lepas asked for my housemates opinion and all... giler tak matang, soal nih pun tanya kengkawan... my answer was "YES"... so, there we goes... went through so many ups and down, so many hurdles together... yet it end up to a tighter bond and stronger love each and everyday...

“The most wonderful of all things in life, I believe, is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a growing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing; it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of divine accident, and the most wonderful of all things in life.”